pillow haze
turning massage into more, this candle with calming bergamot and oakmoss melts into a warm natural oil that feels rich and deep on the skin, easing tension and helping you land in the body.
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the candle's genderless scent is crafted to transport you, whether to a serene cloud or the tranquility of a calming forest, helping you escape stress and immerse fully in the moment.
it's multisensory experience, blending soft, warm oil, a soothing scent, and gentle candlelight, enhances the massage, making it deeply relaxing and restorative. perfect for deepening your connection with a partner or enjoying a moment of self-care and serenity.
light the candle and let the scent fill up the room. once enough wax is melted, blow out the candle and let the oil cool to the right temperature. each person is different, so touch it to feel what feels right for you. pour it out on the skin using the tip and rub it in with your hands.
massage it until it’s absorbed by the skin, leaving it feeling soft and nurtured. as the oil gets cooler, it’ll turn slightly harder but it’ll remain soft.
it should not be used as lubricant as the oil has been developed for massage and nurture.
we don't recommend using the candle while pregnant because of the fragrance in the oil.
- made in scotland
- oil base is made with 100% natural ingredients
- vegan
- no parabens and phthalates
- genderless scent
- ceramic base can be reused once the wax is gone
- Hydrogenated Glycine Soja (Soya) Oil
- Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Almond) Oil
- Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) Seed Butter
- Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea) Butter, Parfum (Lunar)
- Tocopherol (Vitamin E)
- Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil
- Benzyl Alcohol
- Cinnamal
- Citral, Citronellol
- Citrus Aurantium Bergamia (Bergamot) Peel Oil
- Citrus Limon (Lemon) Peel Oil
- Eucalyptus Globulus Oil
- Eugenol
- Geraniol, Geranyl Acetate
- Juniper Virginiana (Cedarwood) Oil Limonene
- Linalool
- Linalyl Acetate
- Pelargonium Graveolens (Geranium) Oil
- Pogostemon Cablin (Patchouli) Oil
- Terpineol, Tetramethyl Acetyloctahydronaphthalenes
- Trimethylcyclopentenyl Methylisopentenol
a deeper massage
the warm massage oil enhances the experience by relaxing the muscles, allowing for a deeper, more soothing massage that releases tension and brings a sense of calm to both body and mind
calm the nerves
stress is the biggest barrier to feeling in the mood for intimacy, which is why this candle is designed to have a calming effect by combining warmth, dimmed light and green scent notes known to reduce anxiety, like bergamot, frankincense, eucalyptus, and oakmoss
crafted with care
the candle comes in a sleek ceramic vessel featuring a spout for seamless pouring, making the application of the warm oil smooth, effortless, and mess-free
how to use your massage candle
let the flame burn and the scent fill the room.
once enough has melted, blow out the flame. 10 to 15 minutes gives you enough oil for arms and shoulders.
dip a finger in and pour when it feels warm and comfortable to you.
use the tip to pour the warm oil directly onto the skin and massage in.
skincare grade ingredients
the melt
this is a candle that melts into oil, not hot wax. pools into a warm, skin-soft massage oil at a safe temperature.
conditioning
lightweight skincare oils. sink in without greasy residue, leaving skin nourished.
scent
bergamot, eucalyptus and oakmoss, a soft green scent that feels grounding and calming, like fresh air, green woods and open space.
what you will not find
a 100% natural oil base, vegan, hand-poured in scotland. the ceramic is yours to keep.
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"instead of wax, this candle is made with natural ingredients that melt into a rich massage oil, making for a sensual present for your other half"
"sitre's water-based gel uses 20% organic aloe vera to create a safe, silk-like gel that makes every touch feel softer yet more intensified. lubricant designed for women first(!) huge."
"while every product in sitre's line exudes effortless beauty, it's their full moon bar that has me captivated, a dreamy indulgence designed to help you channel the sensual energy of the full moon."
"with notes of cypress and vetiver, as well as shea butter, sweet almond oil and jojoba oil to nourish the skin, this massage candle is a sensual must-add to her self-care routine."
"after feeling frustrated with the current state of intimacy products, founders cecilie hjelmager and julie herskin decided it was time to bring a gentle, honest take."
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